What binds us

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Lie

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How does it feel inside of you when you lie to someone you love very much?

Sometimes we believe things that don’t feel good inside of us.
We believe that the situation should be different than it is.
We believe that we should have done things differently in our life.
We believe that we want to be with somebody else than the one we are with right now.
We believe that our children should love us.
We believe that we have to do something to get love.
We believe that we should get love from somebody else.
We believe that we are not worthy to receive love.

Does this feel inside of you as if you are lying to someone you love?

When you believe these statements you are lying to someone you love so dearly: YOU.

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Freedom

Freedom 

When you are freed from the identification with your past, your past will leave you alone

When you are freed from the identification with your thoughts, your thoughts leave you alone

When you are freed from your identification with your emotions, your emotions leave you alone

When you are freed from your identification with you, you leave You alone.

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Obstacle

 Obstacle

Once you are on the slide to the depth in you, sometimes you experience some stopping in the glide. And you call it an obstacle. A bump, a ditch, a detour, a flat tire, a worn out shoe: very obvious.

There are also other obstacles: concotions, ghosts haunting from the past, fears of what lies ahead, attachment to the old and well known, attachment to the old pain, the old patterns: invisible most of the time.

Most of the time the invisible obstacles are nasty ones. You don’t know that they are there, until you feel inside yourself that there’s something not right.

And then it seems you have a choice: return and go the familiar road again, or, with soft hands opening the gift of it, look at it, embrace it and let it go back to where it came from.

You don’t know what you will choose when the time has come. The secret is that you don’t have to choose. It chooses you. The obstacle chooses you and the solution chooses you.

And sometimes there is someone with you, arms wide open, lovingly, who is there while you work your way through the obstacle.
Some people call it an angel
Maybe so
Maybe you are the angel
In the form of a human

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Wanting

 Wanting

 Wanting is the most painful thought prison there is.

You want to have, you want the other to act/be differently, you want more/different/less for yourself, the world.
There is so much wanting; you want so much. 

In relationships wanting is the sniper, who does not kill the relationship, it kills You.

Wanting is the opposite of who you are, your true nature.
As soon as you step into “wanting”, you step out of You.

They even made a secret out of wanting:When you want something enough, it will happen.

Not knowing what you want,
Receiving with gratitude all that comes to you,
Welcoming everything that appears in front of you,
Is seeing Life for what it is in essence; what you are in essence:
Abundance, Gratitude, Love.

What can more aptly meet your needs than what you have right now?
What gifts can you see right now when you stop wanting?

Realizing for yourself that wanting itself is the obstacle,
Opens your heart for what was and is available, always.

Then whatever you always wanted comes to you without any effort …

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Meeting

 Meeting me

 Sometimes you don’t want to meet another, the other, every other, the one who is closest to you, any longer

You avoid him or her, don’t get in touch, you hide, you become invisible, unreachable.

Sometimes you do this very obvious, sometimes very sneaky and in you, you feel the pain, the pain of segregation and separation.

The pain you are experiencing is the pain telling you that you do not want to meet the other anylonger,
you do not want to meet yourself in the other.

The other shows you you, always.
The other exists only in you.
The other is you